Resolving Conflict Around Homework
Some of the most common arguments at home (related to schoolwork!) lead to statements like this:
- “Stop playing computer games and do your homework.”
- “I told you, get off your phone, I can see you are on Instagram.”
- “Why haven’t you started your homework yet?”
- “What do you mean you have no homework to do?”
If these are common refrains in your household, there are some simple steps that can be taken to deal with this.
Step 1: Family meeting. Both students and parents get a chance to explain what is bugging them.
Step 2: Agree on how much time will be allocated to homework per day or per week.
Step 3: Agree that during this time homework will be the first priority, then assessments and any remaining time should be spent on independent learning (e.g. reviewing difficult work, making summaries).
Step 4: Allocate set times for schoolwork and write these out and put them on the fridge e.g. Monday 4-5pm, 6-6.30pm.
Step 5: Agree that in these blocks of time, there will be no personal technology used (preferably phones switched off and put out of sight).
Step 6: Decide on rewards and consequences if the agreement is not honoured.
There are many units in www.studyskillshandbook.com.au that can help you specifically with these areas. For example:
Dealing With Conflict – strategies for conflict resolution
Time Management Skills – find out the recommended amount of time to spend on schoolwork, learn more about independent learning and print weekly planners
Dealing With Distractions – strategies for managing technology addictions
Log into www.studyskillshandbook.com.au with these details -
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4-25 May ONE BODY IN FAITH: EXPLORING THE THEOLOGY OF THE BODY
Every Thursday evening, 7-8.30pm, Our Lady of Lourdes Church, 269 Flinders St, Nollamara. Through his Theology of the Body, Saint Pope John Paul II gave the Church a deep new understanding of the purpose of the human body. At a time when societal trends tended to see the body as an object of pleasure or as a machine for manipulation, John Paul II emphasised the theme of love as self-gift and saw the body as the means to love in the image of God. This course is suited not only for young adults or married couples, but for all ages and vocations! Suggested donation $20. Presenter: Mr Derek Boylen.
12-14 May A WEEKEND RETREAT CELEBRATING “LAUDATO SI”
Exploring Creation in Today’s World at Kilmolee, 182 Arcadia Drive, Safety Bay. Friday 12 May, 4pm to Sunday 14 May, 2pm.
12-14 May PRAYING WITH MARY, MOTHER OF GOD
Mary’s role in our life of faith is celebrated throughout the liturgical year and in devotional practices. This retreat will focus on these two aspects of prayer in order to deepen our understanding of Mary’s place in the Christian tradition.
Presenter Sr Jill O’Brien sgs at New Norcia Monastery. Cost $260. Further info:firstname.lastname@example.org.
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The Mater Dei College P&F is holding a High Tea on 21st May in the Central Courtyard. Details of the event are below: